Discrete, Feel-Good Sex Toys For Men

So get this: sex toy seller and manufacturer Adam & Eve contacted me and said “Hey Caitlin we want to sponsor a video” and I said “That’s awesome, will you please send me some male sex toys? I recommend them all the time but I have never done a video or blog about them!”

They said, “hell yeah” and then I said “Woa woa woa not so fast.”

“I want you to send me TWO of each of your best male sex toy so I can use the other half in a GIVEAWAY!”

We are going to review five male sex toys here on this blog.

Five lucky subscribers to my YouTube channel are going to win an unopened version of every single adult toy that I’m going to review in this blog post.

BA BAM! And not just that, but I’m going to give EVERYONE that enters this competition a discount on my brand-new informational Masterclass, called Come When You Want. This course provides the exact steps to gaining ejaculatory control, becoming a more confident lover, and having better sex. You can learn how to give her multiple orgasms through penetration and you never have to worry about finishing too soon ever again.

But first, let’s find out how you can use sex toys to amp up your sex life.

Why Do Male Sex Toys Have Such a Stigma?

Why is it totally cool for women to have a dildo drawer next to their bed, but when it comes to men, we get all creeped out?

Why can women have two full drawers full of anal beads, butt plugs, and all the best sex toys but for men it’s frowned upon to have a penis sleeve?

Men – you deserve to have great masturbation sessions. You deserve to feel great and have pleasure. And that, my friends, might be the reason we’re not typically cool with dudes having sex toys: because we don’t really go around saying that men need pleasure and happiness and feel-good-vibes.

So with no further adieu, I present to you my FAVORITE male sex toys from Adam & Eve that can give you ultimate masturbation pleasure, help you have better intercourse with your partner, and help you gain total ejaculatory control if used with my Come When You Want Method.

Instead, we generally say “women should have pleasure and men should put in work.”

That’s nonsense. We should all experience pleasure, we should all put in work, all of us should do our fair share, and all of us should receive our fair share.

Amazing Male Sex Toys to Help You Last Longer in Bed

Strokin’ It by SI Novelties

I’ve been using this sex toy as a stress ball on my desk because it is so floppy and soft. And at first glance, this toy does not look like a male masturbator. It kind of looks like a cloud or a ghost. So if you’re looking for a discrete masturbation sleeve, this does not, at first glance, look like a sex toy. It’s super flexible, so even though it’s only six inches long, larger men should be able to make it work. It’s also the least expensive of all the pleasure products that appear in this list.

Strokin’ It by SI Novelties

Now, I don’t have a penis, but I tested out Strokin’ It with my fingers, and it feels really good. There’s a larger hole in the top where you insert your erection, and there’s a tinier hole at the other end for easy cleaning (and also for preventing a vacuum seal from forming on your dick).

After using this as a stress ball for a week while on the phone with clients, I can say that this toy is not going to last forever. I believe a sex toy should be built to last, so with this one, only time will tell. But if you’ve been looking for basic, discreet pocket pussies, this could be a great little option.

The Sasha Grey Deep Throat Ultra Skyn Pocket Pal by Doc Johnson

This toy features Sasha Grey’s mouth… actually molded from Sasha Grey’s mouth! It feels like the real thing, boys.

The Sasha Grey Deep Throat Ultra Skyn Pocket Pal by Doc Johnson

This one not only looks and feels exactly like a mouth, but even has bumps inside to make it feel more like the back of a throat. Talk about realism! The tongue even feels exactly like a tongue.

This male masturbator does not have a hole in the back, so this one is going to create a lot more suction around your penis and is definitely sturdier than the Strokin’ It. You’re going to be able to get a really good grip on this sleeve.

The downside: If you are more than 5.5 or 6 inches long, you might be hitting the back wall because it’s not as stretchy. But since this one is sturdy, you can position it between the mattress and box spring or between the couch cushions and give it a whirl! You can even put it in a shoe and have sex with it in multiple different ways. (Calling all dudes that want to have sex with shoes! I see you!)

Fleshlight Go Surge

Now onto the bigger and badder toys! The Flesh Light name is synonymous with the male sex toy industry. It’s well-trusted and popular among both beginners and veterans, and you’re about to find out why.

Fleshlight Go Surge

Why is it called a Fleshlight, you ask? I mean look at it – it looks exactly like a flash light. Its way more discrete. From a distance it looks like some sort of appliance or tool that’s used around the house. No one will be the wiser.

The way it works: just remove the cover, and voila! Vagina inside! And there’s a TON of realistic texture happening all up inside this toy, including bumps and ridges.

Objectively from my finger test, this one feels wider at the entrance than some of the others and has a little more girthy space (But less insertable length, which we’ll discuss in a moment).

It’s pretty easy to clean too – just take the silicone piece out of the plastic casing, clean it and let it dry to lengthen the life of your toys.

Downside: this is the Fleshlight Go which is their travel kit, and it is only seven inches deep, which means if you are larger than seven inches, you might end up hitting a hard, plastic backing. Not fun for you larger dudes out there who need more insertable length. All of these men’s toys so far are made of silicone, which means you can only use a water-based lubricant with them. Silicone-based lube is going to degrade the surface of silicone toys. You have been warned.

Both the Fleshlight and Sasha Grey’s Pocket Pal come with renewing powder. Using these powders (which are just made out of corn starch) after you wash and dry them will help preserve their realistic skin-like texture. Without these corn starch powders, the toys get a little sticky, lose their smooth sensation, and create a little more friction.

Adam’s Turbo Dual Stroker by Adam & Eve

Adam & Eve don’t just sell toys – they also manufacture them! What struck me the most about Adam’s Turbo Dual Stroker is not just that it has two different sensations, but that it also has a suction cup so the toy can be stuck onto a shower wall or other flat, hard surface. Hello no hands!

Adam’s Turbo Dual Stroker by Adam & Eve

As you may have guessed by the name, this toy has two different options. At one end you have a SUPER realistic mouth and tongue. The mouth has a pretty tight seal around it, so girthy guys might either have a challenge or might find it VERY enjoyable. But compared to Sasha’s mouth, there’s not as much texture going on here.

Flip around the toy, and you’ll see the vulva!

This toy might also be slightly difficult for men that are larger than 5 or 6 inches. Big guys might be hitting the back wall, so it’s something to keep in mind. But if you use this just as a stroker, I’m sure it will feel awesome.

If you’ve never used a pocket pussy or male sex toy, you can try out both ends and see which side you like better: the mouth or the vulva. (There’s a lot more texture on the vulva side.)

Penis Head Teaser By Trinity Vibes

This little battery-operated banger goes over the head of your penis and uses vibrations to stimulate the head, which is often the most sensitive part of your schlong anatomy. It’s remote-control, takes AAA batteries, and has little nubs all over the inside of it. These little nubs create sensations. Very good sensations.

Penis Head Teaser By Trinity Vibes

There are also multiple different modes to create different sensations. I think this could be helpful in desensitizing someone or a great way to get aroused, stimulated, and turned on for men with delayed ejaculation so they can keep up and ejaculate with their partner.

Win One of These Bangin’ Sex Toys For Men!

To win one of these 5 amazing toys, make sure you’re subscribed to my YouTube channel. And as a thank you for entering, I’m going to give you a discount to my Come When You Want Masterclass that can help you last longer in bed, build sexual confidence, and bring her to orgasm during penetration.

So please, check out the Masterclass, register for your chance to win one of these steamy toys, and subscribe to my channel for more information so you can have the best sex life ever.

Achieve Control in Bed and Say Goodbye to Premature Ejaculation

Male sex toys aren’t just for fun anymore. We’re using these things to achieve our goals in bed: to last longer and to achieve ejaculatory control. Come When You Want is my new Masterclass, designed to show YOU, step-by-step, EXACTLY how to put these toys to good use so you can last longer in bed in as little as six to eight weeks.

If you’re looking for a more personal, one-on-one approach to curing premature ejaculation, apply to work with me! Drop me a line! I can help you last longer in bed, overcome sexual dysfunction, and make you an amazing lover with an incredible sex life.

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