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Introduce Kink Into Your Sex Life

So you have a kink. First of all, congratulations. Sometimes allowing ourselves to admit we have a sexual curiosity can be difficult. But you’re already doing it! Today I’m going to tell you how to get your partner to do

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7 Ways to Get a Woman’s Attention

One time I fell in love while standing in the middle of a bustling train terminal. I didn’t even know this guy. I had never seen him before, but I was attracted to him from across the room. What drew

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How to Stop Being Involuntarily Celibate

A friend recently asked me, “If you had one superpower, what would it be?” After thinking about it for a second, I said, “Snapping my fingers and removing sexual shame and fear so people can have uber-pleasurable sex lives!” My

5 Sexy Ways to Incorporate Food in the Bedroom

There’s a bazillion ways of putting food and sex together, and I’m going to teach you all the delicious ways. My husband likes doing that thing you see in the movies — where a woman is wearing a blindfold and

The 10 Most Common Mistakes Men Make in Bed

The two WORST sexual experiences of my life had one very important thing in common, which was the poorly-timed use of biting during foreplay. Don’t get me wrong – a good nibble is rarely a bad thing. Some teeth on

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How to Have More Sex In Your Long-Term Relationship

I knew the line “Not tonight honey” before I knew what sex even WAS. It’s no joke in our society: the idea that long-term relationships are devoid of good sex. You’re probably familiar with our cultural story: there’s a couple.

6 Reasons Dogs Get More Love Than You

6 Reasons Dogs Get More Love Than You

According to one study, 47 percent of women cuddle their dogs more than they cuddle their spouse. So if you’ve ever found yourself wondering, “Why do the dogs get more quality time than me?” You, my friend, are not alone.

How To Make A Woman Think About You Non-Stop

Today I am FIRED UP! I saw a video published by an online dating coach for men. This “relationship expert” was giving advice to men about how to make women think about you NON. STOP. This video did pretty well

7 Ways to Spice Up Your Sex Life (& A Word of Caution)

The spiciest thing I’ve ever done in my long-term relationship? It was probably that one time we made a “home video” (wink wink) that involved props from around the house and garden.  Tell me THAT’S not spicy.  (Actually, it wasn’t

How to Make Her Squirt (Be Legendary in Bed)

Sup, Internet! Today we’re going to talk about your favorite subject: squirting. That’s right: squirting is not just something you can do with guns. It’s been a few years since Tripp and I got together to film that famous squirting

Discrete, Feel-Good Sex Toys For Men

So get this: sex toy seller and manufacturer Adam & Eve contacted me and said “Hey Caitlin we want to sponsor a video” and I said “That’s awesome, will you please send me some male sex toys? I recommend them

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Why Women Cheat (And How to Prevent It)

One of the most important reasons to become a great lover is to keep your lover satisfied so they don’t go looking for affection somewhere else. I’m Caitlin V, the creator of the Come When You Want Masterclass. One of

Can a Woman Really Help Men with Premature Ejaculation?

Can a Woman Really Help Men with Premature Ejaculation?

I was out to dinner with a couple of friends the other night when a friend stopped me and said, “You’re a woman…and yet you work with men to cure premature ejaculation and erectile dysfunction. But you yourself have never

Why You Shouldn’t Be Afraid to Ask a Woman If She Wants to Have Sex

Are You Afraid of Initiating Sex?

We have been lied to. There’s one lie in particular that’s wreaking havoc on your sex life, especially if you’re a man who deals with sexual performance anxiety. Whether you feel occasional anxiety around wanting to please her and make

What Men Need to Know About Birth Control

One of the major causes of premature ejaculation and sexual dysfunction is sexual performance anxiety. Performance anxiety: the fear that many men experience around sex with their partner. But what causes performance anxiety? There are a whole bunch, but there’s

How to Smash the Script for a More Empowering Sex Life

Improve Your Sex Life by Doing This One Thing

A while back, I was in a tent with my spouse in the middle of the desert and my libido was OFF THE CHARTS. We’d been driving across country, staying in hotels with friends, and FINALLY our opportunity for lovemaking

How to Be an Amazing Lover with Premature Ejaculation

How to be a Great Lover With Premature Ejaculation

Having premature ejaculation does NOT mean your sexual relationship is doomed. But you would never know this based on how people talk about premature ejaculation (PE)! These are not mutually exclusive things, and I’m here to show you that you

what science says about penis size

What Science Says About Penis Size

I think every man I’ve ever worked with has wondered, “Do I have a small penis?” Up to 45 percent of men worry about their penis length. So if you’re looking down in your pants wondering about the average penis