One time I fell in love while standing in the middle of a bustling train terminal. I didn’t even know this guy. I had never seen him before, but I was attracted to him from across the room. What drew
A friend recently asked me, “If you had one superpower, what would it be?” After thinking about it for a second, I said, “Snapping my fingers and removing sexual shame and fear so people can have uber-pleasurable sex lives!” My
If you asked men “what is your worst nightmare?” one of the responses you might get is “Slowly losing the length and size of my penis.” “Waking up one day to realize I’ve lost a whole inch and I can’t
There’s a bazillion ways of putting food and sex together, and I’m going to teach you all the delicious ways. My husband likes doing that thing you see in the movies — where a woman is wearing a blindfold and
The two WORST sexual experiences of my life had one very important thing in common, which was the poorly-timed use of biting during foreplay. Don’t get me wrong – a good nibble is rarely a bad thing. Some teeth on
I knew the line “Not tonight honey” before I knew what sex even WAS. It’s no joke in our society: the idea that long-term relationships are devoid of good sex. You’re probably familiar with our cultural story: there’s a couple.
According to one study, 47 percent of women cuddle their dogs more than they cuddle their spouse. So if you’ve ever found yourself wondering, “Why do the dogs get more quality time than me?” You, my friend, are not alone.
Rimming, Tossing Salad, Eating Ass… Analingus… Butt play with your mouth. This is a subject that is sure to elicit some STRONG responses, guys. I’m sure that as I soon as I dropped the term “anal play”, you had some
In her excellent book Pleasure Activism, Adrienne Maree Brown outlines four different approaches to period sex: Team Bloody Awesome The people who get it, they know how to treat you during your time of the month and they know how
Today I am FIRED UP! I saw a video published by an online dating coach for men. This “relationship expert” was giving advice to men about how to make women think about you NON. STOP. This video did pretty well
Scientists Don’t Agree On This One Thing, And It Could Make It Harder To Overcome Premature Ejaculation.
Men and women of science have been asking this question for years: “How do we define premature ejaculation?” How do we know what PE actually IS? Some scientists call it early ejaculation. Some call it premature ejaculation. But the question
The spiciest thing I’ve ever done in my long-term relationship? It was probably that one time we made a “home video” (wink wink) that involved props from around the house and garden. Tell me THAT’S not spicy. (Actually, it wasn’t
Sup, Internet! Today we’re going to talk about your favorite subject: squirting. That’s right: squirting is not just something you can do with guns. It’s been a few years since Tripp and I got together to film that famous squirting
So get this: sex toy seller and manufacturer Adam & Eve contacted me and said “Hey Caitlin we want to sponsor a video” and I said “That’s awesome, will you please send me some male sex toys? I recommend them
One of the most important reasons to become a great lover is to keep your lover satisfied so they don’t go looking for affection somewhere else. I’m Caitlin V, the creator of the Come When You Want Masterclass. One of
I was out to dinner with a couple of friends the other night when a friend stopped me and said, “You’re a woman…and yet you work with men to cure premature ejaculation and erectile dysfunction. But you yourself have never
You wanna quit. It’s getting in the way of your happiness, your healthy relationships, and even your motivation to go out and get laid. What am I talking about? Pornography! Quitting porn is something I suggest for ALL the men
We have been lied to. There’s one lie in particular that’s wreaking havoc on your sex life, especially if you’re a man who deals with sexual performance anxiety. Whether you feel occasional anxiety around wanting to please her and make
One of the major causes of premature ejaculation and sexual dysfunction is sexual performance anxiety. Performance anxiety: the fear that many men experience around sex with their partner. But what causes performance anxiety? There are a whole bunch, but there’s
Is it the man’s job to get her off? Or is it the woman’s job to reach climax? Should both the man and woman work in tandem? Who OUGHT to be responsible for the female orgasm? Today, it’s generally considered
A while back, I was in a tent with my spouse in the middle of the desert and my libido was OFF THE CHARTS. We’d been driving across country, staying in hotels with friends, and FINALLY our opportunity for lovemaking
Are you living in a soupy feeling of worthiness and validation right now? Are you basking in the sunny rays of self-esteem and positive energy? No? The amount of love we feel in any given moment colors our entire experience.
You don’t need to be a sex therapist with a fancy a degree to become a great lover. In this blog article, I’ll share the seven things that made me a sex expert, and none of them have to do
You have a hot date tonight and just in case things lead to sexual intercourse, you want to ensure you can go for a long time. You want to give your female partner orgasms. You need the endurance to give
Chances are, you’re familiar with the average foot fetish. If you go to porn sites or talk to people long enough, you’re likely to find people out in the world who have foot fetishes. There are other common fetishes as
Having premature ejaculation does NOT mean your sexual relationship is doomed. But you would never know this based on how people talk about premature ejaculation (PE)! These are not mutually exclusive things, and I’m here to show you that you
I think every man I’ve ever worked with has wondered, “Do I have a small penis?” Up to 45 percent of men worry about their penis length. So if you’re looking down in your pants wondering about the average penis