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Introduce Kink Into Your Sex Life
So you have a kink. First of all, congratulations. Sometimes allowing ourselves to admit we have a sexual curiosity can be difficult. But you’re already doing it! Today I’m going to tell you how to get your partner to do
Pain During Intercourse? Simple Fix | Vaginismus, Endometriosis, Dryness
Sex is a lot of things. But one thing it should not be is painful. (you know, unless you’re into that sort of thing.) If your woman experiences pain during sex, it can take ALL the fun out of lovemaking.
Single? Your SECRET Weapon Against Premature Ejaculation (Works For Married Guys Too)
“I can’t practice lasting longer in bed if I don’t have a partner to practice WITH!” Guys, this is not square dancing. You do not need a partner to practice curing PE. In fact, sometimes it’s better to NOT practice
Why women love “air tight” sex & how to have it tonight
It was my first-ever orgy experience when someone shouted “Make her AIR TIGHT!” …And I had no idea what this meant. Until they SHOWED me what it meant… which was amazing and ended with some giggling and high fives. But
This is how long she wants you to last in bed.
It seems like all men have the same goal between the sheets: Last longer than last time. Move the goal post. Aim higher. Keep that joystick so hard that “the party don’t stop ’till 8 in the mornin’!” But since
How to use your “Energy Cock” for powerful sex
When I first heard about “Energy Cock”, my first reaction was, “say what?” But once I learned what it was… I knew it was going to make foreplay buzz with anticipation, boost my husband’s confidence, and change our sex life
The 5 Most Common Mistakes Men Make When Women Pull Away
We have all had the experience of connecting with someone, falling in love, and feeling like maybe they’re “the one”. Maybe you’ve been imagining a future together. Maybe you got her an engraved bracelet for Christmas. But suddenly, she pulls
What do women think about after sex? (What men need to know.)
What you do immediately after sex tells me a lot about who you are as a lover. Thing is, a lot of people don’t even think about those moments right after sex, which is a shame. Because what you do
Do THIS for More and Better Sex (Scientifically-Proven Gratitude Hack)
Giving thanks … expressing gratitude … is a pretty big deal when it comes to your sex life. A recent study published in the Journal of Social, Psychological and Personality Science demonstrates that gratitude has a positive correlation and causation
How Do Women Masturbate? (Female Self-Pleasure How-To)
Women, about 90% of us masturbate. But I recently came across a study that said around 60% of us wonder if we’re doing it “right”. Which means, many of us are secretly wondering, “Am I normal?” Since most women don’t
What she REALLY means when she says she wants “connection”
Today, we decode the language of women. What do they mean when they say they want to “feel connected?” As a sexuality and relationship coach, one of the many pleasures of my job is helping lovers cross the communication divide.
How often should you masturbate?
When I was a young kid, I noticed that it felt good to touch myself “down there.” I even noticed that the longer I stimulated myself, the more likely I was to reach a “release” at the end, where I
How Stress Affects Sex Drive (Low Libido and Low Desire)
Sometimes life throws things at you: a pandemic, an election, mercury in retrograde, a black cat walking across a broken mirror on a full moon… Stress, like death and taxes, is a sure thing. But when the straws of stress
How to Bewitch Your Partner with Halloween Role Play
My friends, the sexiest holiday is upon us. Flames flicker, skirts get shorter, the good girl next door transforms into a daring sorceress … It’s the night we unearth the scary, haunted parts of ourselves we thought were buried… We
How to Eat Pussy: 7 Tips for Giving Her an Oral Sex Orgasm
Want to have her moaning in pleasure? Of course you do! Maybe you worry that you’re a slobbery, uncomfortable, tonguey mess when you go down on her. That’s why, today, we’re talking about the 7 most mind-blowing pussy eating tips
Boost Libido Naturally (Increase Sex Drive and Desire for Men and Women)
Between the bills, the phone calls, the appointments, and the crushing weight of your daily to-do list, it can be hard to squeeze in pleasure. And this, my friends, can really put a damper on your libido. Because sometimes it’s
How to Talk Dirty (Dirty Talk Formula)
Dirty talk is intimidating. How do you go from “I would like to touch your breasts with my face” to being a swashbuckling dirty talk MASTER? Too many of my clients have something lame they said to their woman that
What to drink to last longer in bed (Natural ways to manage premature ejaculation)
In a world where we mix protein powders in breakfast shakes, where we count macros, and where we attempt to measure and optimize every part of life, it would make sense to apply that same line of thinking to sexual
How Does She Want You to Thrust During Sex? (Depth, Speed & Rhythm)
You don’t have to slay dragons with your cock to be the lover of her dreams. In a word: stop thrusting like a 1970’s porno. Yes, you see them hammering away in porn like a construction site — but that’s
Sleep With Other People? Consensual Non-Monogamy, Explained
I need to come out of the closet… Very few people know this about me, but I think it’s important that you do. I am not monogamous. Yes, I have a partner, and yes, I am married. But we practice
20 Bedroom Red Flags (Sexual Red Flags to Watch Out For)
We’ve all heard of those relationship red flags: the indication that someone might not a good fit for you and you probably should run for the hills. “She keeps showing up unannounced when you’re out with your guy friends to
The Amazing Benefits of Morning Sex (And how to start having more of it)
Half of the magic of life lies in having a good morning. And the key to a good rest of the day might be an orgasm after a good night’s sleep. Too many of us wake up to an alarm
How to Survive a Sexless Marriage (Without Cheating)
This is hard for me to write about. Because believe or not, I used to be in a sexless marriage. It was hard. Coping with a sexless marriage can feel really awful at first — and it can happen to
The Best Clit Vibrators To Unlock More Female Orgasms
Imagine being able to bring your woman to orgasm every time. Imagine her pulling you into the bedroom to get it on because she KNOWS that it’s only a matter of time until you’re able to make her entire body
How a Woman Can Help Her Man Last Longer in Bed
This one’s for the ladies who need ample amounts of foreplay and stimulation in order to be enjoy vaginal penetration. Because let’s face it — when your man busts off at the slightest whiff of a sexual encounter, it can
Bringing Sexy Back: Why You’re In a Sexless Relationship and What to Do About It
Let’s get the first thing out of the way right now: most couples aren’t going at it like jackrabbits every single day. It’s perfectly natural for weeks to slip by without getting it on, and sometimes stress, a significant life
Does This Chemical Cure Premature Ejaculation?
Would you put cloroseptic on your dick? Second question for ya… would you spend hundreds of dollars to not be able to feel anything during intercourse? Because that’s exactly how big pharma is raking in the dough — by selling
How to tell your girlfriend you have a fetish
You know how many men I’ve met who were SO ashamed of their fetish that they believed they had to hide it away – stuff it down so deep that they would never be able to experience it with a